Out of Order? 3 Tips to Keep You Calm in the Courtroom

Originally published by Robert Kraft.

Not knowing what to expect the day of court can make it more stressful. It can be comforting to know that there will always be other people in the same boat—court is nerve-wracking for everyone involved. Even professional attorneys can sometimes become emotional over a pending case. The absolute truth is, that you’ll never be able to anticipate just how a judge will rule. But there are a few things to help keep you cool, calm, and collected.

Preparing for Court

You hire a lawyer for a reason. Give your lawyer a chance to do their job for you. Your job is to show up, look presentable, and don’t speak. Your appearance matters more than you think. When you’re dressed nicely, you’ll feel more confident as well as approachable, and your judge will note the respect you are showing for the situation. Second, when we feel nervous, it’s easy to volunteer too much information. Not speaking on purpose will allow you to just answer specific questions directed at you, and not contribute to foolish, harmful information. Your lawyer should prep you on everything to expect beforehand. However, if you’re unsure in the moment, look to them for guidance before moving forward.

Remorse

The court process is as much about you learning a lesson as it is doling out punishment. Find comfort in the fact that you really are just a number. There is someone at court who’s done less and clients that are guilty of far greater. Remember when you’re trying to keep calm that prisons are often overcrowded and ongoing court proceedings are expensive and tiresome. The court wants to make the process as quick and as painless as possible. Tell the judge you are sorry, show remorse, and be sincere about paying your debt to society.

Listen and Learn

Finally, remember to listen to cases that go in front of the judge before you and what is being offered your way once it’s your turn to be sentenced. Being inattentive will not look good for your case. You’ll quickly learn that court is an ever-changing process. Your lawyermay request more time for your case if your team needs longer to prepare, or perhaps try to settle before a trail for convenience’s sake. Court clerks, attorneys, and even the judge will help guide you and make 100% sure you are aware of your rights and terms you may be agreeing to. Be open and honest during the process and accept fair punishment if necessary.

The legal process is flexible, despite what we see on television; but getting through your court date successfully is more than just keeping a positive attitude. You should also remember to avoid feelings of embarrassment because you are doing the right thing by facing charges. If it’s your first time going in front of a judge, reviewing these 3 tips will help you stay calm and get the best outcome for your situation and case.

This article was written by Dixie Somers, a freelance writer who loves to write for business, finance, and family issues. She lives in Arizona with her husband and three beautiful daughters. You can find Dixie on Facebook.

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